Master Your Love Life: Five Characteristics Women Love to See In Men!
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Master Your Love Life
Master Your Love Life
1. Take responsibility
Learn from Adam. Don't do things you know are wrong and then blame others. If you make a mistake, take responsibility for your actions. One of the meanings of the word "husband" is someone who skillfully manages his household. A manager takes responsibility. As Adam experienced, there is little sympathy for a man who blames a woman for something that has gone wrong. He's often still held responsible. People will ask him, "Why did you let it go on?" A man has to look at himself and see how he can change his own actions to properly handle similar situations. Develope a Passion for Responsibility.
2. Show leadership
If a man wants to be seen as worthy and have a good relationship with a woman, he has to show leadership. When he sees a situation that needs to be dealt with, he should step forward and handle it. People admire those who step forward to handle difficult situations. We don't admire those who stand back and wait for others to solve the problem.
Some men avoid taking the lead because they don't want to be criticized. They think they're playing it safe. A man should say, "I'll handle it," and take the initiative to find solutions. If he's not sure what the solution is, do what other leaders do -- consult the many sources of information available. Develope a Passion for Leadership.
3. Make decisions
One of the meanings of the word "manly" is being decisive. A man needs to make decisions and take responsibility for the outcome. If he's reluctant to make decisions, she may resent him. Part of making decisions is understanding the other person's views and being flexible.
She doesn't want someone controlling her, but she also doesn't want someone who leaves every decision to her. A man who is afraid of making a wrong decision should ask himself: Who should make decisions? -- someone who isn't afraid of making mistakes. Develope a Passion for decisions making.
4. Be strong
Who is strong? He who can control his passions. Someone who can control his anger is better than a physically strong man who can conquer a city. Blowing up in anger can seriously damage a relationship. If a man thinks he can't control his anger, he should imagine being angry at someone, the telephone rings and it's his boss. Would he calm down? Of course, or he'd lose his job. Not getting angry doesn't mean he accepts bad treatment; he calmly sets limits on the treatment he accepts from others. Develope a Passion for being strong.
5. Be manly
Being manly is not being macho. Manliness is the positive qualities of decisiveness, strength in one's convictions, confidence, self-reliance, high moral qualities, self discipline, honesty and integrity. A man who is manly has courage to be able to deal with difficulty, pain or danger without backing away despite his fear. Develope a Passion to be manly.
Control Your Passions
Passion creates a problem when it becomes an obsession. No matter how harmless it may seem, passion can wreck havoc when it gets out of control and becomes an obsession.
Two way conversations
Calm down and speak with controlled passion. What ever you're doing, it is your passion that cause you to want to be a great success. Let other people into the conversation, and make them feel part of it. If they feel like it's a one way conversation, they will lose interest. Let the other person in to your inner circle. Always engage the other person, it will pay off in the long run when they feel like they have done something to improve your idea. This approach can make a huge difference in how you are perceived.
Passions and Money; Balance is the Key
creative channel passion
Being creative and passionate can make you feel alive. But it also has side effects. It can make you fall in love instead of rise in love - make you obsessed about sex instead of the love and concern for the well-being of the other person. However, controled passion can be channeled into productive means that are socially acceptable. Some artists can sublimate their feelings and channel them into their art. Channeling your passion into work can make you a profit.
Turn Your Passion into Profit
Entrepreneurship is the passion to accomplish whatever you put your mind to. So, you don't have to worry about a lack of jobs, start your own business. Do not develope a passion for money as this is not the key to riches. Do not start your business for the money but rather start it based upon something you are passionate about. Think of things that cause you to want to make a difference in the world by solving a problem. Your business should provide a solution, and if it is good enough you will find a way to create an amazing living at it.
It won't be easy and you will go through ups and downs. In the early days you won't have much money. However, there is a reason people put themselves through the insecurity and uncertainty of entrepreneurship. You keep pushing, you learn and you improve and when you find the right solution nothing feels better. But, it's all up to you and at the end of the day there is really only one thing that matters - you Are in Control.
To men: If you haven't heard these ideas before, ask your wife if this is what she wants. You may be surprised at her response.
To women: If you agree with this article, ask your husband to read this!